A New Year – A New You
Reinventing ourselves comes from within. It does help to have a planetary shift similar the one we had on the winter solstice December 21, 2012 which coincided with the end of the Mayan calendar. 2018 was all about building and laying down a new foundation. The upcoming planetary shift in 2019 is all about making things tangible and material. So, if you have a goal or dream, this will be a new year to start making steps to transform your dream into reality.
First, I found it necessary to reclaimthe parts of myself I had lost, given away, or given up on. I suggest youdo thesame. The Fusion Modality in the Resonance Repatterning® methodretrieves lost qualities. It will free you to be moreauthentically who YOUare out in the world.
In a workshop called,Owning My Purpose, one of theexercises we did was to inquire about what we did, or how we survived ourfamily dynamicsgrowing up. One of the things I discovered that I did tosurvive, to be acceptable and to get my needs met was to find out what therules are andfollow them. I then saw that even to this day, I find out whatthe rules are and live within the parameters of them, even if I do not agreewith them,or even if have to settle. Growing up, I became thegood girl, nice and pleasing. I foundout what others needed and did whatever it took to makethem happy–harmony atall cost!
The next exercise in this workshopwas to distinguished what qualities we left behind to survive, like ouruniqueness, ourcreativity, our curiosity, adventure, etc. I discovered that Ileft behind, my inner desires, my true authentic playful nature, myfullself-expression, my dignity, and most importantly my values.
>We then talked about what we arepassionate about, like making a difference, nature, animals, helping adoptedpeople findtheir biological parents, etc. I discovered I have many passions!The four I spoke about were my passion to free people fromtheir past and moveforward to fulfill their dream; to take risks, be adventurous and playful; tobe in an environment wherethere are wide-open spaces; and to be free to bemyself.
From there, in the quietness of my inner sanctuary, I created and later declared and claimed my purpose. I stood up in front of the whole group – and on camera to boot – owned my purpose. My purpose is to inspire and empower others’ greatness to live extraordinary lives! What I realized is that I am already doing that. Energy surged throughout my whole being and a rush of emotion filled my eyes. It was total validation of what I have been all about for many years.
The group, was then asked to picka project to fulfill within six months that would allow us to tangiblyexperience ourpurpose and move us into unhesitating action. I could notimagine taking on yet another project. So, I chose one I had yet tocomplete:publishing my first book,What WouldLoveDo Right Now? A Guide to Living an Extraordinary Life. I created astructure to fulfill my goal with support from those who love and care aboutme. The paperback was published December 2017 by my own company which you canvisit atwww.ExtraordinaryOutcomesPublishing.com. TheeBook came out in May of2018 and got to #1 on Amazon the first day. It was exciting!
As you move forward reinventingyourself, be sure you are gentle with yourself and get the support you needfrom thosewho love and care about you. It will be easier than you think! If Ican do it, YOU can do it too! Have fun!
Lovingly Submitted,
Victoria Benoit, M.C.
Healer, Speaker,Bestselling Author of What Would Love Do Right Now? A Guide to Living an Extraordinary Life
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