Turn your wounds into wisdom. The Magical Healing Process. It’s not just about saying the words, “I am sorry,” it’s about having these three words make a positive difference in your relationships and your life. By taking your precious time to engage in the Healing Process, you can free yourself to have a magical life. Here’s the recipe I discovered that really works. The Magical Healing Process with those who have...

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Set yourself free. Start here. START NOW! Applying the Magical Healing Process to people who have harmed you. This recipe has four ingredients: 1) recalling and recording incidents from your past; 2) releasing your associated feelings; 3) energetically giving the responsibility back to the other person; and 4) receiving the other person’s sincere apology. Recalling. Within a relationship category–your parents, your intimate partners, your...

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Free your heart. Free your mind. FREE YOUR SOUL Applying the Magical Healing Process to people YOU have harmed. Do this to liberate yourself from the guilt of any harm you caused–or think you caused–to other people in your life. Often, the way we have been harmed is the way we harm others. This is not for the accidental times you hurt someone. This is for the times when you were angry, jealous, afraid, or hurt and didn’t know how to...

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Grow in your capacity to love and be loved. Apply the following Magical Healing suggestions for success. Regardless of whether you are healing the unresolved hurt from those who have harmed you, or from those you have harmed. 1. Remember to pace yourself. Rome wasn’t built in a day. Whether you process one incident per day, per week, or per month really doesn’t matter. What matters the most is completing this process in the time...

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Heal your relationship with your mother first. To live a magical life–filled with magical experiences, magical people, magical creativity, a magical career, magical moments with your children, friends, colleagues, neighbors, spouses, lovers, etc.–you must heal your relationships with your biological parents first. You can never separate yourself from the sperm of your father and the egg of your mother–whether they are known to you or not–and no...

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Heal your relationship with your father now. To live a magical life–filled with magical experiences, magical people, magical creativity, a magical career, magical moments with your children, friends, colleagues, neighbors, spouses, lovers, etc.–you must heal your relationships with your biological parents first. You can never separate yourself from the sperm of your father and the egg of your mother–whether they are known to you or not–and no...

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It’s amazing that intimate relationships happen at all. Intimate relationships take courage and resilience. They are the riskiest of all relationships in our lives. They demand priority and they involve your whole heart. Intimate partners include: your first love, boyfriends, girlfriends, live-in partners, husbands, wives, significant others, and anyone else you consider an intimate partner. We all grew up witnessing many aspects of our...

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